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February 3rd, 2019 at 10:57 am

Our Sunday morning routine is to do our weekly shopping. Husband and I look at the Publix and Winn Dixie sales fliers, look through the refrigerator and pantry and make a shopping list. It never seems like a long list...and it never seems like an expensive list. We hit four stores (in order - Target, Aldi's, Publix and Winn Dixie) and get 99% of our shopping done. Sometimes, only some times, do we swing by Trader Joes on the way home. We are a fan of some TJ staples...all in total, we spend between $100 and $150 per week. This is supplemented with a monthly BJs warehouse run. Our grand total for groceries is usually 1,000 or so.

Thank you all for the comments to my last post. I approached the topic of "working on the relationship" and husband took it well. I mentioned, while sweeping the kitchen, that I had a dream that we were divorcing. He replied that didn't sound like a good dream. I responded with, you have to admit we need to work on our relationship. Not much was said then and I figured my comments had fallen on deaf ears, like usual. But today, during our Sunday routine - when we were in the car without kids - husband asked, what can we do to work on our relationship. I wasn't prepared and could only rattle off a few things. But the fact that he asked, make we feel better. At least I feel that he cares enough to follow up on the question. We talked while we drove to the stores and he acknowledged that I do more in the relationship.

I plan to call and see about a counselor so I can better form my thoughts around why I am miserable or what is missing in the relationship. People often suggest seeking help at church but that has never felt appropriate for me. Counseling is tough for me as it is contrary to my upbringing. But, you all are right, I need someone to listen.

Thank you all for the support....

3 Responses to “Sunday”

  1. rob62521 Says:

    Wow, I'd say he did listen and he is wanting to try and work on your relationship. Thank goodness he asked and even better you felt you could open up to him. I'd say you are going in the right direction!

  2. creditcardfree Says:

    Yay! A good positive first step in working through the problems and feelings and communicating. Keep talking to each other, be kind, but be honest. My husband and I grocery shop on Sundays too. I used to do it during the week without him, but I like it better together! Stay focused on what is and has gone right thus far to keep you together. All relationships take work and many can get better.

  3. Jenn Says:

    Perhaps you and your husband could share your hopes and plans for the future. Having a shared vision may help both your finances and your relationship because you'll be working as a team.

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